Sunday, August 30, 2009

Detachment

Angel wisdom tells me to find my inner wisdom. Angel wisdom also tells me to let go of attachments, attachments to people and everything.

My inner wisdom guides me to realize that I have attachments to the dramas of the people around me in my life: The infidelity drama, the divorce drama, the anorexic drama, the drama of the sick doctor and her ex, the drama of the wounded brother; the wounded brother in law, the repressed sister, siblings in denial, the nieces, the nephews ….

All these dramas, although valuable mirrors, I now let go. I value these dramas as mirrors, but I will no longer be attached to them, or the outcomes thereof. It is not my shit.

My attachment to these dramas prevents me from looking deeper into myself. I feel good when I see how other people fuck up, and pat myself on the back because …. “I have grown so much”. This then becomes an attachment to my own “journey of spiritual and emotional growth”. Unconscious arrogance!

I want to reclaim my own power, my own authenticity, I want to feel the pure me, I want to listen to the wisdom of my soul. I release everyone and everything. I recognize my beauty and that of others.

Friday, August 28, 2009

Intimate adult relationships

"An intimate adult commitment is based on informed consent:

'I know the architecture of your ego and the unlit corners of your shadows, and I commit to you with my eyes wide open. The territoriality and competitiveness of ego are loosening in me. Before, I wanted to possess you to gratify my ego. Now I dispossess myself of ego to strengthen our relationship.' "

David Richo in How to be Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving

http://www.shambhala.com/html/catalog/items/isbn/978-1-57062-812-2.cfm

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Self-Worth

So, I can help him by surrendering to the flow of life, by exploring my creativity and by being confident and worthwhile.

In short, by changing my role, (my childhood roles of being the youngest, the favourite, the one with no voice, the one that was bullied, the one they were jealous of) by being brilliant, creative, humble, authentic, surrendering to my Higher Self; I set clear boundaries and limits and firmly decline to let others step over them or manipulate me.

I have said my piece, now it is his responsibility to respond, or not to. All I can do is let him see the golden aura radiating from me, the changes in me. I am a co-creator. The angels flood my life with higher truth and joy.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Truth

My vision is to live in truth: Truth to myself, my Higher Self, and to all that I am connected to. Commitment and discipline to this vision will bring me freedom. I direct every thought, word and action towards this truth, for the highest good of all concerned. Angels, please help me on this journey.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Aspiration

It is time to set my sights higher. I have always settled for the mediocre; I now aim for the superb. I can stretch myself to fulfill all my potential and hold mighty visions.

I find the wisdom within me which enables me to aspire to the great and glorious.
I expand my comfort zones so that I can explore my dreams.

The angels guide me never to settle for less than my incredible human spirit can achieve and deserves.

Angels, please help, guide and inspire me so that I can raise my consciousness and live at a higher level. Let my spirit soar and aim for the Divine.
I aspire to the great and glorious.

Adapted from Diana Cooper's Angels of Light Cards